Hi all
Within the last about 3-4 Weeks, I was able to ship my App for all three platforms to the shops.
As I had incredible, terrible problems to do that (2-3 Weeks of the 3-4 Weeks, I had spent to solve problems) and as I think my findings (in short) should be interesting for every XF-Developer that want (plan) to ship his app in all three shops, I post this thread here (for other users).
I first have tried to post my (html-formatted) text directly in this thread…
The forum then has showed an error-message, that my posting is “8’556 chars too long” 
Therefore, I had to create a .pdf, re-format the whole text and post a link to the .pdf here.
As I then wanted to post this thread the first time (yesterday) - the forum was down (of course while I wrote the message) 
In the .pdf, you can find a short description to my app and chapters to each platform (iOS, Android and WP (8.0)) with some of my findings and hints to every platform
You can find the .pdf here:
http://www.matrixguide.ch/Datenablage/diverses/How-to-submit-XF-Apps-to-the-shops.pdf
I (really) hope, this helps someone (as it (the posting) has cost me additionally a full day and also some nerves) 
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